Internet & Sex – The Softer, Safer Side of Sexual Internet Exploration

Net sex, better known as (Cyber-sex), is something that is new to a lot of people. It was certainly new to me when doing my research on sex. "Research, yeah right, research, just keep telling that to yourself." However, that is exactly what I was doing and for a long time I avoided writing about the subject for the very reason of the bombarding, aggressively overwhelming, perversion that is attached to Sex & the Internet. So, I eventually found ways to get around all the garbage sex advertisements that are out there.

Do not get me wrong, I live my life by the code of: 'Live and let live', but for myself, I am not all that interested in seeing any of the outlandish things that can be found online. Not even a little bit .. After all the struggle of getting information without experiencing any 'attacks' from the offensive, I realized that others would more than likely want to know how to go about it too. So I have compiled some helpful tips and informative ideas on where to go to explore the world of Internet Sex.

Some tips on how you can avoid the hardcore when your exploring your sexuality on the web, are not near as complicated as one might think. There are some sites out there that are not for everyone. It seems that the internet was at first synonymous with pornography and outrageous smut sites; however that is changing along with the reality of just how useful the internet really is.Thankfully, it is finally setting in on the general public.

There are some sites that are tasteful and more for the mature woman looking for exploring her sexuality. Please keep in mind that mature does not need to mean older. Even young women, and curious girls deserve the ability to learn about sex in a mature and tasteful setting. The men too, that are almost always the target market for perverse pleasures, will also find these sites a little, okay a lot, less unsettling than the run of the mill hardcore sites that make sure they are all too available.

The best tip is when you are looking for education of erotica & sex without the 'attack', is to be as specific as you can and putting your search in quotes. Also, start your search with erotica literature, this way you will be able to read what you need to know without seeing anything 'off putting' and unexpected. Another thing to consider is which search engine you use. Google will provide you with as much as possible without and discretion or discrimination. So anyway, it would be best to use an engine with softer erotica as a specialty.

Another good tip is when surfing if you do get hit from an aggressive ad you do not want; be prepared ahead of time. Learn how to delete your internet connection from your keyboard so as not to be tricked by these hucksters, as sometimes clicking the delete or end tab will open the site. They use this as a technique to trick you.

Another great tip to finding quality information without getting sex spammed is offline. Where I learned much of this research that I am supplying now, is from a place that you can go to and get all the access you want. This is a place full of books, magazines, newspapers, information, catalogs and computers too. That is right, the library. Funny enough they have an extensive collection of tasteful books on the subject and you do not have to ask anyone about anything specific, you can just go and find them yourself.

Plus, if you use the libraries' computers, they are set to block all sites that are offensive. However, this is can be a double edged sword because then you can not visit certain tasteful sites even though they are not offensive they can still fall under the blocked category.

There you have it. The softer, safer side to exploring sexuality without being mistaken for a socially depraved misfit or accidently becoming a bondage forum member. Remember, that there is nothing wrong with learning about your sexuality. The internet is now making things available for people who are a little apprehensive and shy. It can help tremendously and in many cases already has helped people to safely relate, date, and contemplate their sexuality without having to put themselves 'out there'.

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